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three-oh

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the sound of stamping little feet on the wooden floor. the morning light brightening his sleepy face. trailing his security blanket behind him, Will silently climbs on my knees, wraps his arms tightly around my neck and nestles his head on my shoulder.

"happy birthday Mommy" he says.

I always thought that by the time I was thirty I would have a lot of things figured out. and I realize that I don't. yet wearing the necklace and hair clips that my sons have secretly bought with their father and kept hidden under their pillows suddenly gives new meaning to all the questions that are left unanswered. and gently reminds me that I have time to learn my lessons, to be confident in my tastes and views. and find out who I am.

Reader Comments (31)

Happiest of days sweet friend...
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterblackbird
happy birthday, darling.

i'll be turning thirty, too, in a few weeks & i know what you mean . . . i really thought i'd have more figured out by now, that i'd feel more established & have it all together, somehow. but, you know what? i think that things may be more fun this way. when you don't know exactly where you're going, everything's a little bit more of an adventure.
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterbeautiful mess
Happy Birthday!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered Commentermamatulip
Happy Birthday! Get ready: my thirties have been my best decade yet. I'm sure they will be yours.

K.
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterChookooloonks
When I'm thirty, I'll have a two year old - so I think that I'll really be reassessing EVERYTHING! :) What I love and look forward to is that turning thirty is a gift - a release from these tough twenties, all the growing and stretching and awkwardness. That's what I hear, anyway, from people wise enough to embrace that decade!

Happy birthday, beautiful Irene!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterSam
Happiest birthday wishes!!!! (sorry they are en retard . . :(

I think you are spectacular and all I can say is if I were half as together at 30 as you are I'd think I was all that!!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth
that was sweet - happy birthday Irene!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterSalvina
Happy Birthday!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterKohana
Happy Birthday, friend. Welcome to the 30's. It's a very liberating and fun decade to be in.
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterbella
Happy Birthday to a most beautiful woman!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterlove squalor
Happy birthday, Irene!
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterSarah
Happy Birthday, you sweet, sweet, wonderful woman! I'm going to be 40 next year and I STILL feel like I have NOTHING figured out. In fact, I think I have LESS figured out now than when I was 30! Sigh. So, sounds like you are right on track! ;-)
Apr 3, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterCorey
Happy happy birthday! Oh I wish I had things figured out now on the eve of my 40th.

That is the sweetest pic of you.
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterpaintergirl
happy, happy birthday!!!!!! I wish you only good things Irene!
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered Commentershaz
Happiest of Birthday's dear friend, I love your presents. xoxo
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterkristen
Happy birthday!! What lovely gifts from the boys. And I think you've learned lots - and shared it generously with us.
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterChris
Aries unite! Happy Birthday, my friend.

(Can I borrow that necklace?)
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterNicole
Welcome to your 30's, my dear. So far, I've been totally digging them, so fear not. This is when we really come into our own.
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterElaine
happy birthday dear heart, so nice chatting with you, look forward to the next time, :) xo
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterjenny
ps, that is just the cutest picture!
Apr 4, 2007 | Unregistered Commenterjenny

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