now what?

ENT (ear, nose, throat specialist) : "see, despite medical treatment Will still has recurring bouts of otitis media and a chronic ear infection. I really think that an adenoidectomy should be performed to remove the adenoid tissue. July 13th would be great because I go on vacation on the 14th. you have to come to the hospital early in the morning. the procedure itself only takes about 40 minutes and your kid will be asleep the whole time. you will be able to leave the hospital about two hours later. with your son, of course. here are the papers for the blood test and appointment with the anaesthetist. and make sure your son has eaten nothing. this is a really simple procedure. don't worry. Mrs.? are you okay? you're turning kinda white right now."

Comments

[Angie]

Get a second or third opinion!!! Do not be pushed into doing this immediately!

[blackbird]

oh. yeah.
cause the general anethesia is just NOTHING.
watching them hold him down for the IV is NOTHING.
having them wheel him away from you is NO BIG DEAL.

while it could be a miracle cure, it is a big step.
take mamny deep breaths, probably into a paper bag.
(you know, so you don't pass out?)

[Seriously Steph.]

I agree with the advice to seek a second opinion, just to be sure. And, if he still needs treatment, make sure your hubby can be there to hold your hand. It will be OK. Hang in there!

[Vanessa_AR]

Doctors always act as if it's "nothing" but it isn't when it's your child! I'd get a second opinion, too, then go ahead with it if both doctors agree. Will definitely will feel better without the adenoids, but I know the whole process is worrying you. Keep a positive attitude, Irene, things will work out fine. I'm here if you need to vent!

[Marilyn]

He actually said that he picked a date which would be perfect because he goes on vacation the next day?! I agree with the others...a second opinion might be called for.

[Susie Sunshine]

Poor little guy.
Poor little guy's mom.

Sending good vibes to you all from across the pond.

[jakapk]

Irene- get a second opinion- I have a good friend- her son had this procedure done here in S.F her son Zach suffered terribly- but her doctor would not do the procedure until he was older- 6-7 I think- now, could be totally different case- but check it out-when they finally got it done- it went really well- his recover went well but It's not a piece of cake!! I worked for a surgeon- they deliver news like this without a blink- it's just because they are used to it- But your not- and they forget!

[Flare]

Eeeeeek! Get a second opinion? That seems too much all at once! And putting your son out at such an early age deserves a second opinion, I think! That's serious bizness!

[Joelene]

Oh, Irene. I know you will do what you think is best. Maybe this will help him? I know what a tough situation this is for you. I know I owe you an email, don't worry all is well! I will say a little prayer for will and you too!

[Melissa]

Ditto, ditto and ditto on "get a second opinion."

I hope the little guy is feeling better soon.

[Des]

i don't disagree with what the others have suggested as to getting a second opinion. but if ever your son does need to have his adenoid tissue removed, there really is nothing to worry about. my son had his removed last november and it was just a one-day surgery. he was asleep the whole time. i know how you must be feeling right now, i was there 8 months ago. nway, i just hope your little one gets better soon.

[coffeegirl]

My little guy had the SAME EXACT problem and procedure. The thought of your fella getting an adenoidectomy is scary, but after it's done, he will feel so much better. My guy was like a new kid afterwards. I didn't realize how debilitating his reoccuring ear infections were to his spirit. After the procedure, he was full of spunk and NEVER had another ear infection!

If you have any questions or worries, you know my email address! I'm thinking of you sweetie.

[Lucinda]

I had an adenoidectomy when I was 17, after suffering from tonsilitis and related illnesses several times a year and missing a TON of school. It hurt like hell for a month, but I haven't gotten sick since (13 years later). I am sooooo glad I did it. Apparently it doesn't hurt as bad when you're young. I lost about fifteen pounds because swallowing hurt so bad that all I could eat was crushed ice, jello and egg nog soup. So get a second opinion, but if Will really is having ear infections a lot, he'll probably feel much, much better in the long run.
Good luck!!!